Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Thankful for A Good Weekend

For those of you that keep up with me regularly, you might recall this post about some issues that I have been having with my mother.

Given our recent history, to say that I was a little nervous about the holiday weekend would have been an understatement. As we drove the three hours south last Thursday morning, I had butterflies in my stomach. My mom is my mom and always will be, and therefore, I am able to forgive (and even mostly forget) some of her less than stellar moments. My husband does not have that same convenient memory when it comes to her antics. I knew that if she was anything like the last time, our visit would be dramatically shortened and there might be no going back.

However, gone was the Evil Grandmother of the past couple of visits, replaced by the grandmother that I always had hoped she would be. She was eager to hold Will, cuddling him, feeding him a bottle, reading him stories. My dad was great with him as usual. My sister was also thrilled to see her nephew and made a huge fuss over him. My little brother, who has also had some adjustments to make with Will's arrival (a lot more understandable in a 15-year-old), also seemed more interested in Little Man. He still has never held the baby, but he got down on the floor and played with him and his activity mat. It was nice to see my family so happily interacting with my son. I have to say, it's about time!

Speaking of activity mats, I gotta give a shout out to my favorite mat. We got this mat for our baby shower and it's all right. Will plays in it, but never with the glee that he plays in with this one. The freakin' star is like Baby Crack. It's on sale at Cost.co right now for $19.99 and if you don't have it, I highly recommend it. Even if you have one already, get this one to use for traveling or just something different. Here is proof of its wonder. . .


Anyway, all in all, it was a very pleasant holiday weekend. I am not even that nervous to return to celebrate Christmas in a few weeks.

I hope everyone had a lovely Thanksgiving. I can't believe that it's the start of a another holiday season already!

9 comments:

Fertilized said...

That's a very successful visit! I am so happy to hear that for you

Katie said...

I'm so glad the visit went well. He is too cute on that mat!

Jen said...

Great! I am so glad that your weekend went better than you were expecting.

The Patterson's said...

So glad to hear your Thanksgiving with the family went well. I think I have posted once before that I am having some difficulties with my mom, dad, and sister as well - such that they don't really believe we are infertile! Of course, I can't put that on my blog because they read it. Thankfully our holiday went well also. Now, I'm praying and hoping that Christmas will go just as well (and that we'll have great news to share!).

Rachel said...

I'm so glad you had a good visit.

Amanda said...

I'm so glad the visit went so well!!!

And you're the second person that I've read that's mentioned that the star on the Einstein mat is like baby crack. I'm thinking maybe I should get one or two of these things.

Geohde said...

Um. I have that exact mat!

J

Jen said...

You are so right. That star is baby crack! I absolutely love it.

S and J plus 2 said...

Congrats on a successful visit home! Hope they all start going that way!