tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post283482396570854088..comments2023-10-31T07:08:49.742-07:00Comments on Taking the Statistical Bullet: AftermathKatiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08961948894847619115noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-39362795089023372062010-09-15T21:35:12.119-07:002010-09-15T21:35:12.119-07:00I'm so sorry for your sister's loss. One o...I'm so sorry for your sister's loss. One of the worst things about suffering from infertility is that we become experts in the field, and we know when something is not going to turn out well. On the other hand, we are able to provide our information to help others heal when they experience their first loss. I hope your sister's next pregnancy will be the one that turns you into an aunt.Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557058289173914574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-2901290193443119022010-09-15T18:54:06.354-07:002010-09-15T18:54:06.354-07:00I am so sorry. :( My sister's miscarriage wa...I am so sorry. :( My sister's miscarriage was hard on me and I had been trying to beat back the jealousy monster, too. I miss my little should-have-been niece or nephew. I felt like the worst person on the planet. My husband said I wished her baby away, but that's not true. I would NEVER wish harm or death on an innocent child! I never wanted anything to happen to my sister. It was just tough for me to swallow and I was trying desperately to cope with that. <br /><br />I am really so sorry! :(Searchinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112896236818363817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-30852926231495176102010-09-15T10:59:16.197-07:002010-09-15T10:59:16.197-07:00Ughh... my heart sank into my stomach while readin...Ughh... my heart sank into my stomach while reading. Just stinks. Im glad you were able to be there for her.~Holliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02604641853111796521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-9908756105353292152010-09-14T10:05:19.894-07:002010-09-14T10:05:19.894-07:00I am so sorry for all of your loss.I am so sorry for all of your loss.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15243054875237959038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-6984067190398574542010-09-13T19:56:54.187-07:002010-09-13T19:56:54.187-07:00I am so sorry for your sister, Katie. I'm sor...I am so sorry for your sister, Katie. I'm sorry she has to know that heartache, and that you are feeling it again for her. Thoughts and prayers.Sunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10964875388384777306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-19135638589610569902010-09-13T18:20:07.565-07:002010-09-13T18:20:07.565-07:00The one thing I hate about IF is it's lasting ...The one thing I hate about IF is it's lasting effects and the way it colors things that shouldn't be a big deal. I'm so sorry for your sisters loss and pain. ((many hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-87092805934404675102010-09-13T17:34:19.692-07:002010-09-13T17:34:19.692-07:00I'm sorry, Katie.
I'm glad you two were...I'm sorry, Katie. <br /><br />I'm glad you two were able to talk.HereWeGoAJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17457680345376171720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490746375774981338.post-53491616763863134082010-09-13T14:58:21.550-07:002010-09-13T14:58:21.550-07:00I really am very sorry for your and your sister...I really am very sorry for your and your sister's loss. <br /><br />The cumulative affect of your own experiences shape how you react to news (of all sorts). Of course you didn't wish this on your sister and just by questioning why it is so *seemingly* easy for some and is never a realization for others doesn't make you a bad person or even an uncharitable infertile. It is just a consequence of your own experience and the countless IF friends you've cheered on and cried with through the years.<br /><br />That said, working on one's attitude is never a bad thing, and I am sure this experience will color (favorably) how you respond to future pregnancy announcements.<br /><br />Each woman processes a miscarriage differently and I hope she is OK as she comes to terms with this.It is what it ishttp://itiswhatitisorisit.net/noreply@blogger.com